Monday, March 17, 2008

We're Debt Free!!!! and other news...




March 17, 2008


We're DEBT FREE!!!!! We wrote a check for our Tahoe today and now, only owe on our house. We got The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey from Papa K in December and decided to go for it. Of course we also did our I-600 today too. Money, money, money, but God has provided and we are finally free! Our I-600 makes our son an US citizen upon completion of our adoption in Ethiopia. One step closer to bringing him home! So exciting!!! Vince and I sat in the immigration office and just smiled and held hands. It's a great way to expand the family! I would totally recommend Dave Ramsey and adoption. They are offering Dave Ramsey classes everywhere, including Grace, so check it out. It is so worth it. Also, the girls just finished gymnastics/tumbling. They all did great! Here are some pics. One last thing...we were watching T.V. with the kids and Haley said "All there are is cartoons on" and Lila said "Haley, that's not nice. God cre-ected cartoons and He works really hard on them."

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Weekend News/Adoption Update


So, I will start with good news...we have our I-600 appointment on St. Patrick's Day at 7:30 a.m. This will allow our son to become a US citizen upon adoption finalization. We didn't receive the Shoahannah's Hope grant, but know that God blesses many families through that ministry, and others needed it more than we did. I am applying for one more local grant, so we'll see. But we trust that God has and will continue to provide for us.

This weekend 4 out of 5 were sick. Vince and I, Lila and Haley had the fever, cough, chills, etc. Not a pretty site, but I am glad we are getting it all out of our systems at the same time. We have watched High School Musical and HSM #2 countless times...I think Vince likes it!!!

It has been an emotionally rough weekend for me. I probably read to many hard blogs, but I had to ask you all for prayer for these two families. One family is on the East Coast and the other in Swaziland, Africa. A three year old, little girl named Mary-Claire is dying with a medulloblastoma. I have been praying and following her story for months now, and I read her post and wept bitterly for a good hour on Sat. A month old baby boy named Moses, passed away while some missionaries had taken him to try to nurse him back to health. His mother is dying of AIDS and TB and they had asked the mother if they could help him. He was doing better, but he passed away. The mother had to be carried to her son's funeral; she was too weak. Beautiful, beautiful children. I know this is so depressing, and sometimes I would love to remain ignorant of suffering going on in the world, but God doesn't call us to a life of ease. My girls have been sick, but I know we have medicine, it isn't deadly, and I can help them. I couldn't imagine. I was doing a Bible study lesson and one was about how Christ healed and had compassion on the sick. She related God to a parent and how he loves all of His children the same, but when one of them is sick or in need, he pays special attention to that one child. I know God isn't encumbered by where he can be, and how 'thin' He can be spread, but He does attend to those suffering and calling on Him. If you would pray for these families, it would be a blessing for you and them.

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Goin' to Junction City, Junction City here we come!




Junction City is a very exciting place to go, especially when you don't get out much and the hotel is free, complete with cable and an indoor swimming pool! Vince had training Monday through Thursday and we swam our little hearts out. Daddy would take the girls a little before 6 am, before he went to training, and I would then do homeschool and then we would swim for another 2-3 hours, naptime, then dinner and more swimming!!! It was CRAZY being in a room with three girls for 5 days! We were not to thrilled with eachother at times and I think we gained 5 lbs. each while there. The coolest thing we did was drive through Manhattan, see our old campus and visit Life Choice Ministries (LCM) Pregnancy Center. I took the girls in there and visited with Joy, the director and she remembered us through our letter we sent 5 years ago. For those of you who don't know... Vince and I met at KSU in August of 1998 and a couple months later found out we were pregnant. I had taken two home pregnancy tests and even went to my Lawrence physician and all three tests were negative. That semester, LCM was invited to come and speak at my Human Development class and they made us write down there number, walking down the aisles to make sure we wrote down their info. Finally I called and Vince and I went in. A sweet lady, bigger, mid-50's, slowly walked us down the hall and had us watch a pro-life video. We said to eachother "what a great ministry...we'd never have an abortion...we aren't pregnant..." She returned and sat down and told us the news. We were six weeks pregnant. I collapsed in her bosom and she just held me...Best embrace I have ever felt in my life. It felt as if Jesus himself were holding me. (Not exaggerating). She was the first Christian to show me Christ's love, grace to me a sinner. It's sad she was the first, but it was amazing! She prayed with us and we told her we would not have an abortion. Four years and two girls later, we returned to Manhattan to visit some friends and while there, we slipped a note under the door about this wonderful nurse and how she loved us and how much their ministry had touched our lives. The director called the next day and told us about our nurse. Her name was Shirl Brockgreitens and she had passed away nine months before. Vince talked first and when he started crying I knew it wasn't good. She had been in a coma for a year, prior to our meeting and miraculously, she came out, but still battled with a sickness. She volunteered one day a week, taking the other six days to recover. Her day was our day. The director asked if she could share the letter with her husband and a couple weeks later we received a note:

Vince and Julie:

LCM shared your letter with us and needless to say, it touched my heart. I always told Shirl she would never know all the good she did this side of heaven. She didn't talk much about her time at LCM but she did tell me about the two of you. We prayed often for you. Her last two years were very rough....Mike.

You know when people say they will pray for you, but you know they probably won't. When I read that letter, I felt that God just was right there saying "THEY DID pray for you!" She is one of the first, if not the first person I want to hug in heaven.

Wow, did I get off subject. Anyways, here are some pics of the girls with Joy and in the hotel. All of this to say, you never know how God is going to use you to bless others and we did have a good time! Oh, and our local pregnancy center's website is www.pcclawrence.org. Check it out!

Lila's 4th Birthday





Been a long time since I have updated! Sorry about that, but we've been busy! Lila, our baby, turned 4 years old on Feb. 25th! I can't believe it. We had family over for a quick cake and ice cream before we took off for Junction City! Lila got High School Musical which has provided Lila and Haley with new dance moves, beautiful new clothes, books, leapster games, and a playhouse we received from the Wethington's! It rocks! Complete with a phone, sink, and patio. Here are some funny things that come out of her mouth...


1) Dear God, watch over the ternaydoes and keep us safe in the sterm. Every day she prays this prayer...


2) You see sompin you like papee? (From Happy Feet, complete with Spanish accent)


3) What is a stinky fert? (After dad was talking to her about respecting eachother and not telling people about our family's stinky farts--which she has never heard before, because we don't say that word around here!!!)


Happy Birthday Lila Jewel!!!!